Well for me I like to make my own happiness outward to others whether it is tangible or intangible.
For tangible it would have to be money because sometimes I like to buy the product lower at some places just for fun, in order to support the person working within the business. I do believe in the technology age of numbers, I feel numbers make people happy just like what we see in banknotes but in a different way.
I guess we all need to be uncomfortable in order to grow. As we get older, maybe our risk tolerance is a bit lower as we do not have much time on this earth and need to save time and money for retirement. As we are younger then our risk tolerance to ratio is higher because we are just learning.
I guess having money is mostly a factor if you are willing to take more risks still or maybe as you get older you are more experienced and don’t feel the weight of the risk.
Of course the higher the risk, the better the reward.
Of course we should do what is our passion. But maybe money is our motivator most of the time.
In our earlier years when we have no real life work experience, of course we should find mentors to teach us things so we can survive and thrive in the long term. Usually older people like to teach someone that is younger than them in age because younger people are most likely to listen to the older person. If it were the other way round, it feels like a spiritual thing where the older person does not listen to the younger. Sometimes I do feel that effect as well.
It could be a mature experience or maybe the energy you put out as an older person that makes the younger listen to you.
There is a saying that older people are wiser because of their experiences compared to the younger ones. Sure! We all make mistakes but the older are usually taking the lead.
I guess it comes to what someone says to you as in giving you the position to do something like CEO or some higher position. They are at a higher position for a reason, to look after the people that are in different positions.
When you have the title you would feel the sense of power and confidence in yourself. Of course there are some people not wanting power because it is too much.
But mostly, this would be based on skillset and having the knowledge to pursue or learn as you go in the position to make it better.
Those who want to be in the contribution in society and the community can be an electrician or warehouse worker. I am not saying they do not have power but they are the backbone of society because they contribute to the people and outsiders.
We all should think about what we should do in society like a contribution because it is essential for our mental health. Humans are made to be social creatures, it does not matter what you do but as long as you touch, feel a sense of contribution or talk to other people then our anxiety levels will be stable.
If we are not actively contributing, we would feel a sense of anxiety.
It is like the king is watching your every move but they are actually not giving an illusion of psychosis
If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?
If I had a pet or giving out advice to someone or trying to make a pet understand. I would tell them to live life with no strings attached and also to make money. In our earlier years we should strive to create a system that works for us so it would be easier in our later years as we take more responsibilities such as a family or a partner. With more responsibilities we should also do what we love as well because what our pets and partner can sense is something meaning if you were tired or not excited by life just because you are trapped in a box or the system like a job for example.
I do feel like there is an emotional or spiritual vibe to it because doing something that we love gives us a sense of purpose which is an illusion by the way but I guess in our human DNA, we always have something to fight for in our psyche.
For dogs 🐶, I do feel like they give a sense of comfort and excitement which they act happy to people feeling down. So 🐶 would have that sense of purpose, maybe or maybe not they realise it even if we do not understand their words.
I mean engagement can be monitised as well. But combined with mental health is a factor as well. Socialising can be a good way to interact with another person without wasting time for another person meaning no strings attached (safe environment). Since we have our faces glued to the screen (I am one of them) our worldview can change depending on the stuff we watch. It is similar to propaganda in a way but having more real life experiences and not virtual experiences can actually help us with what we need to know about people a bit more.
It is like nazi Germany made their prisoners watch propaganda on TV and chanting, and when faced with a real life situation, their bodies would react on its own which is not what it seemed like.
So engagement in real life is better for mental health as dopamine levels will not be as fried as you can control your dopamine and attention levels. That is probably why the mental ward restricts phone usage.
If we are young we should start finding our place as soon as possible, finding a balance between work and social leisure. We should start as soon as possible because in this age of technology, society moves faster than ever in our eyes. If we do not work or action something, we will eventually get priced out of society then the conclusion will be suffering or not having nice stuff.
Even when we have money, it does not solve much as it gets you food and a home to stay but mostly what problems you can solve in the community and society at large. With complex mental health issues awaiting to be solved, I do not think it will be fully solved as new social norms pop up everyday.
All we can do is give tools to help people to get money so they can spend on essentials and have some fun (healthy dopamine hits) with it. For example giving a struggling person a pen or book because to get money we would have to work for it one way or another.
What this means as co workers or if you are your own boss working together to achieve a common goal. It works like a hierarchy as a triangle as there is a king on top then on the way down is other people similar to a pyramid.
With these working together everyone has to be respectful in a way so that the whole organisation will not lose their reputation or else they lose their inward flow like cash or any outside social influence to the organisation.
This does not need to happen like a king but if there is one that does not fit the principle and is egged on to do what is not stated in the principle then the whole organisation will slowly fall apart even if the support of the non-principle is contributing to the whole organisation because the outside influence will slowly get angry and will not use the product of the organisation.
Sometimes we sell our soul to the devil meaning we do nothing about the problem just for money. When something causes a lot of problems and you get paid while the problem is causing havoc, we do not take action towards it because we have gotten paid.
Of course we should go by our principles because reputation is more important than the money itself. Reputation gives us cash flow instead of having one lump sum payment. Even when we have a lump sum payment we might or might not spend most of it then it causes us to live in survival mode begging for a miracle but that causes even more issues because we might do something that we regret later on instead of living in the present and being a bit more positive.
With the barriers and getting a lump sum payment, we should still put our foot down and go with our principles so we do not feel guilty in the past for causing a lot of problems just for the money or self.
It is what we hear, smell and talk. Whenever we sense of combination of hearing and smelling influences our decision to do something that makes us do something that we want to do without regrets usually.
I mean what we usually regret is spending money on something that we like or a mistake or misclick which is the most regret. Spending money includes spending our money which is more than our income or cash flow which we will be at negative. I have spoken about this which this money is like lifepoints as in we can only spend so much until we fall.
As an illusion we all interpret things differently which may not be at societal standards or if we think about societal standards which are bad or logical to another person, we would be sent to the naughty corner such as the mental ward.
It is not bad and not good to be sent to the mental ward but maybe sometimes society does not understand us which sometimes we should keep to ourselves, which is not healthy.
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