What bothers you and why?
When people or a specific thing has a specific frequency, I think it can cause us to lash out or do something we shouldn’t do. But I guess it is more about self control.
If you have self control, the universe will reward you. It is just about what kind of self control you use, it can be anything like controlling your anger or controlling what you shouldn’t do based on society’s expectations.
Of course you should work (labour) and contribute, it is how we make the world a better place.