Tag: relationships

  • Trust the process

    Whether you are going through a mental breakdown or have mental health issues, note that it is a process to make you stronger emotionally. We cannot prevent it but hard times create good times.

    All we can do is figure out a way to make our mental health positively impacting us while on the other side, influencing the people struggling with these issues to get them back up on track. These issues cannot be fixed by remedies but mostly for your self preservation. Even doing the little things like trying to pay for something or trying to help someone emotionally, really helps because it is like you are contributing to something or maybe you are a part of something you didn’t realise.

    Slow and steady with your mental health

  • Everyone to be mentally stable and healthy

    What is the legacy you want to leave behind?

    I want to write this because, I have been thinking about this for a while.

    For everyone to be healthy emotionally and physically, we must work together in charity organisations by donating to them. Yes! Some good be scammed. So I currently donate to WaterAid monthly, which I get a newsletter every month  in my email. By donating to their mission I feel good about myself when they are trying to make water safe to use in other parts of the country. We humans have an innate need to help one another, it is how we fulfil our purpose mostly.

    So what I want to leave a mark is “Watapple” stands for helping people for fun in general, but there could be other perspectives about.

    The more people that are healthy the more innovation we get!

    Helping Hand
  • Finding opportunities…

    In society we think we cannot find work or something to do but one valuable skill is to be an all rounder.

    This includes being a cleaner, kitchen hand or working in the office. There are endless opportunities if you are willing to learn. Personality cannot be trained but skills can be trained.

    If you have a lot of experiences into industries, you will find endless opportunities if you put yourself out there. Maybe after you leave school it is harder, but once you get the skills up and running, it will be easier to find opportunities out into the community.

    I find it is best not to leave your eggs in one basket. We humans are always made to improve and are looking for something to do. If we do nothing during the day our minds think of nonsense which in turn affects our mental health.

    My project is trying to bring people struggling with mental health over into working service based jobs as there is a big stigma attached to them while also helping with their investments based on their risk. It doesn’t matter if the money is not a lot per hour but you will be getting valuable skills into the future.

    That is why when you are young it is best to invest in yourself, while making mistakes in the process when important personal responsibilities are limited.

    Careful how you plan out your responsibilities

  • Fear is our enemy

    We should not fear what comes out of peoples mouths/words if it does not affect your life.

    I guess if we fear our mental health will be hi jacked and it will end in an endless cycle of depression or anxiety. We should fear that we are not taking action to make the world a better place. The actions we take should be finding a job or some money method so we contribute to our surroundings making the other person feel like they are looked after.

    If we fear what the higher ups are saying, we tend to inaction our minds, which tends to make us overthink and who knows… Destruction??

    We do need to be cautious at times, because everyone needs to look after ourselves, but we should try to encourage everyone around us to be happy and to be in their normal thinking state.

    But probably everyone has their own perspectives on things.

    Feel the love
  • Doing something worthy of your time

    In the past I have been focusing on making money by trying to give my time. But I noticed, I was not happy with what I was doing because it felt repetitive. It had no purpose and meaning in what I was doing. It was going in the same place day in and day out.

    What I like to do is go to different places while making some money, it is not a lot like previously but it feels like what I am doing has some meaning.

    I also felt like my mental health was declining so I kind of had to do what I wanted to do.

    I guess, try to figure out a way to make money work for me. I think I am going on the right path at the moment but everything in life is a gamble anyways. Working between odd jobs where I get the freedom to be my own boss is meaningful to me.

    What I am trying to do is get my brand out there, just fulfilling my childhood dreams because you never lose it until you lose it even if you struggle at first, but the path will be worth it.

    Trying to be free from the chains of society
  • Accidents? Or Saving us?

    Have you ever broken a bone?

    I have fractured my one wrist before from riding a scooter downhill.

    It was not a good experience after that because I was unable to do something I wanted in the next few months.

    What if maybe… When we fracture or break our bones is the universe of saying, we are going too far with our stunts before it gets worse.

    Or… It could be our bones are fragile.

    Anyways… It could be our unconscious selves saving us before we get hit or even worse lose a life. This does relate back to mental health as maybe our bodies react this way unconsciously. 

    It is a complex subject.

    Still a bigger lump

  • Mental health/illness cannot be cured

    I have been thinking… Maybe it is when people with mental illness cannot be cured themselves but it is part of their personality.

    Not everyone is bothered to complete a specific task. We can only encourage them to do a task. Maybe that is why there are support workers, to help them with what they are lacking.

    When they don’t shower or clean themselves, we can only encourage them. When they are on medications it does make it worse because they have side effects.

    Mostly all we can do is try to support them and slowly they will do their own self care. We also need to use our own input in a softer way as everyone is sensitive how we talk to them in a tone matter.

    Careful how we say things
  • Different environment, different emotions

    When I go to different places, it is a vibe I get. Sometimes it is more relaxing and sometimes it is not. Maybe when we are in congested areas we feel it is more stressful, while the opposite is more relaxed and chill.

    If we hang around a more stressful area, we tend to get more stressed or we somehow get this migraine in our head. While we see greens when we go to the environment our mind stays peaceful.

    I think our human mind finds nature like trees or grass peaceful and relaxing for us. If we are in the city where there is a lack of trees our minds tend to race.

    Even with how the environment is portrayed our emotions react to the environment around us.

    I think we humans are naturally adaptive whether it goes positively or negatively.

    The world that we live in that is natural is always best
  • Personality traits in mental health

    I think in mental health, or if you are out into the mental health system the people that act the way they are that are not in societal standards we get labelled as having something wrong.

    What if it is part of our personality? And how we are shaped by our environment. Sure the community needs to be safe but putting on people on medications does not help as a lot of people complain about them.

    I think when we ask for help then being put on these medications, it just makes us worse as an individual creating a non-safer community in our society and not innovating ourselves. We should learn to think for ourselves before taking these artificial stimuli.

    If professionals have taken these drugs we would listen to them but they are just learning from the books mostly without having actual experiences about them.

    We all have personalities that define ourselves and it cannot be solved with chemicals.

    But who knows? These drugs could be karma related drugs.

    We are Complex Beings