What could you let go of, for the sake of harmony?
Sometimes it is not about the money. I guess we need money so we can live and buy luxuries for ourselves. I do feel more satisfied if the other party is happy and can still look after themselves.
If we do things for ourselves without giving them we would feel dead as in we probably think the whole world is against us. But in our current climate or society, I guess in general we should be about giving financially or emotionally so we feel on top of the world. This is similar to having a passion or purpose towards something